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An Empty Chair at Christmas
An Empty Chair at Christmas

When you’ve lost a loved one, every “first” without them can feel excruciating. The first birthday…or Mother’s Day…or Father’s Day. Then there are the holidays.

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Heart, RelationshipsDave DeSelmDecember 17, 2024Everyday Pastor, pastors, leader, leadership, church leaders, leadership development, Leadership, grief, loss, holidaysComment
Turning On the VCR
Turning On the VCR

Whether you’re a pastor or a parent, a spouse or a friend, the occasion will arise when you encounter someone going through a difficult time.

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Heart, RelationshipsDave DeSelmDecember 3, 2024Everyday Pastor, pastors, leader, leadership, church leaders, leadership development, Leadership, VCR, validate, comfort, redirect, Marcus WarnerComment
Words Create Worlds
Words Create Worlds

I came across a phrase a while ago that has stubbornly stuck with me: Words create worlds.”  

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Heart, Relationships, DiscipleshipDave DeSelmNovember 19, 2024Everyday Pastor, pastors, leader, leadership, church leaders, leadership development, Leadership, the power of words, words, encouragementComment
An Election Day Reminder
An Election Day Reminder

I don’t know about you, but I am really ready for this presidential election to be over.

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Heart, DiscipleshipDave DeSelmNovember 5, 2024Everyday Pastor, pastors, leader, leadership, church leaders, leadership development, Leadership, election, sovereignty of GodComment
Koinonia vs. Koinonitis
Koinonia vs. Koinonitis

Recently I met with a group of pastors I am coaching and we talked about the challenge of assimilating newcomers into an established church body.

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Skills, DiscipleshipDave DeSelmOctober 22, 2024Everyday Pastor, pastors, leader, leadership, church leaders, leadership development, Leadership, newcomers, visitors, welcome, assimilationComment
Appreciating Pastors
Appreciating Pastors

For over thirty years October has been observed as Clergy Appreciation Month in the United States.

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Skills, DiscipleshipDave DeSelmOctober 4, 2024Everyday Pastor, pastors, leader, leadership, church leaders, leadership development, Leadership, clergy appreciation, pastor appreciation, appreciation, gratitudeComment
Discipling Our Politics
Discipling Our Politics

I recently came across an article titled “The Top 10 Problems Facing Pastors Today.” I was not surprised by #1, which was “job-related stress,” or #2, which was “feelings of loneliness and isolation.” I was dismayed, however, at #3.

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Discipleship, Relationships, HeartDave DeSelmSeptember 24, 2024Everyday Pastor, pastors, leader, leadership, church leaders, leadership development, Leadership, politics, politics and religion, discipleshipComment
Eat the Frog
Eat the Frog

The other day I came across this quote from humorist Mark Twain: “If you have to eat a live frog, it’s best to do it first thing in the morning.”

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Skills, DiscipleshipDave DeSelmSeptember 10, 2024Everyday Pastor, pastors, leader, leadership, church leaders, leadership development, Leadership, procrastination, how to prioritze your timeComment
Helping Hurting Pastors
Helping Hurting Pastors

In my last post, I shared some information regarding the struggles pastors are facing today. What can we do to help hurting pastors?

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Discipleship, HeartDave DeSelmAugust 27, 2024Everyday Pastor, pastors, leader, leadership, church leaders, leadership development, LeadershipComment
The State of Pastors 2024
The State of Pastors 2024

I recently came across an article by Jill Foley Turner from the National Christian Foundation that offered some powerful and, sadly, troubling insights on the current state of pastors.

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Discipleship, HeartDave DeSelmAugust 13, 2024Everyday Pastor, pastors, leader, leadership, church leaders, leadership development, LeadershipComment
Applying the 5-Fold
Applying the 5-Fold

In my previous post, I introduced a key aspect of discipleship that comes from Paul’s N.T. letter to the Ephesians.

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DiscipleshipDave DeSelmJuly 30, 2024Everyday Pastor, pastors, leader, leadership, church leaders, leadership development, Leadership, vision, APEST, 5-Fold, 5-foldComment
Embracing the 5-Fold
Embracing the 5-Fold

I recently read a great book on discipleship titled Hero Maker. It’s by a pastor named Dave Ferguson.  The book's premise is that the pastor's role is not to be the “hero” in his church – it’s to be a “hero maker.”

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DiscipleshipDave DeSelmJuly 16, 2024Everyday Pastor, pastors, leader, leadership, church leaders, leadership development, Leadership, vision, APEST, 5-Fold, 5-foldComment
Peripheral Vision
Peripheral Vision

A piece I read from pastor and author Mark Batterson grabbed my attention last week and it has yet to let me go. It has to do with vision.

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Heart, DiscipleshipDave DeSelmJuly 2, 2024Everyday Pastor, pastors, leader, leadership, church leaders, leadership development, Leadership, peripheral vision, vision, divine appointmentComment
A Fault Forgiven
A Fault Forgiven

Tucked away in the book of Proverbs is a verse that is unfamiliar to most of us, but oh so important to grasp. It’s Proverbs 17:9 – “Love prospers when a fault is forgiven but dwelling on it separates close friends.”

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Heart, RelationshipsDave DeSelmJune 18, 2024Everyday Pastor, pastors, leader, leadership, church leaders, leadership development, Leadership, forgivenessComment
Lessons for Leading in Uncharted Territory
Lessons for Leading in Uncharted Territory

One of the best books on leadership I have read in recent years goes by the provocative title: Canoeing the Mountains with the subtitle, Christian Leadership in Uncharted Territory.

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Discipleship, HeartDave DeSelmJune 4, 2024Everyday Pastor, pastors, leader, leadership, church leaders, leadership development, LeadershipComment
Triangulation
Triangulation

If you’re a mariner lost at sea, triangulation is a very good thing. It’s a navigational technique that allows you to figure out where you are by measuring the triangle formed by two known points and your unknown point. But in the arena of relationships, triangulation is another thing altogether

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Discipleship, Heart, RelationshipsDave DeSelmMay 21, 2024Everyday Pastor, pastors, leader, leadership, church leaders, leadership development, LeadershipComment
The Face of Joy
The Face of Joy

Back in 2021, as we were emerging from the long, dark season of COVID, I attended a gathering of leaders from my denomination, the first of its kind since the CDC had issued its new facemask guidelines.

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Discipleship, Heart, RelationshipsDave DeSelmMay 7, 2024Everyday Pastor, pastors, leader, leadership, church leaders, leadership development, LeadershipComment
The Peril of Perfectionism
The Peril of Perfectionism

I enjoyed meeting with my coaching groups.  It’s so gratifying to see these young pastors eagerly leaning into their professional development. Yet it was in a follow-up phone call that I witnessed another need. 

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Discipleship, HeartDave DeSelmApril 23, 2024Everyday Pastor, pastors, leader, leadership, church leaders, leadership development, LeadershipComment
Why Pastors Struggle After a Big Sunday
Why Pastors Struggle After a Big Sunday

As I write this, it’s the day after Easter…and I am remembering what this day was like for me during my 34 years as a lead pastor. I’m also wondering if some of my fellow pastors may be feeling the same way today.

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Discipleship, HeartDave DeSelmApril 4, 2024Everyday Pastor, pastors, leader, leadership, church leaders, leadership development, Leadership, HALT, Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired, Elijah, EasterComment
7 Questions to Ask Before You Preach
7 Questions to Ask Before You Preach

As well as having been a preacher for over four decades, I also have been privileged to be a teacher of preachers, having served as an adjunct professor in two universities.

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Discipleship, Skills, PreachingDave DeSelmMarch 7, 2024Everyday Pastor, pastors, leader, leadership, church leaders, leadership development, Leadership, preaching, motivation, Francis Chan, preacherComment
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